last day

met nur after work.. thot of doing overtime, but something came up pertaining to the house we're planning to get.. sigh.. slight complications.. it seems that there are still stuff we didn't know about the financial process of buying a house..

today was the last day i meet nur up till the day we get married.. gonna miss her very very much.. gonna miss her presence.. everytime i meet her, i tend to crack a smile the moment my eyes fall on her..

well, i need to do stuff for the wedding.. i have about 6 weeks left.. plus this weekend is National Day.. and i'm going to be involved in the Carnival at Marina South..

As usual, MIE is going to perform some stunts using the stock Impreza.. not sure what time are the stunts yet.. i haven't get the schedule and what we supposed to do there.. but obviously i'm going to be stationed there as a mechanic.. duh!

buying a house.. choosing a house.. especially deciding on the location and the type.. is it neccessary to ask for our parents opinion? Maybe and maybe not.. we are the ones who're going to live there.. not our parents.. but then again, different people have different views..

As for me, it's ok to ask for their opinion.. but not up to the point of pushing us not to buy at this location or that, just because they don't like it.. of pushing to buy at that location or this, just because they like it.. if we ask for opinion, then opinion is what u give.. dun be 'smart aleck' and try to be the ones making the decisions.. it's going to be OUR house, so WE are the ones who makes the decisions..

we'll.. nur still likes the place at tiong bahru.. can't say i dont agree on that place, cos i like it too!! wish i have enuf money to get that particular unit.. cos both nur and i have came up with a near perfect layout for that unit following our own unique concept.. even though it's a bit expensive, it's a new house.. brand new..

on the other hand, buying a resale has it's advantage.. we get 30k grant for first timers.. so.. i'm not sure how to work this out.. we have to really budget properly.. else it's going to be nightmare for us after marriage in financial department..

headache headache..

now that i can't meet her face to face, it's really going to be difficult trying to discuss anything.. the perceptions seem to get out of hand at times if we don't discuss face to face.. i seem to have this character whereby i'd rather have conversations with the person face to face.. being able to see expressions and body language makes me easier to figure out the person's feeling at that point of time.. i'm more pictorial when i have a discussion.. i need a pen/pencil and paper/something to scribble on.. well, nur knows extremely well about me on this one.. right nur?